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How to be a jolly mf: joy lists + practical exercises for when you're feeling stuck
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How to be a jolly mf: joy lists + practical exercises for when you're feeling stuck

I’ve never understood the overemphasis our culture places on finding happiness. Seeking pleasure and happiness is a mirage in the desert, making us run ever faster on the Western hedonistic treadmill.

In this episode, we dive into the difference between happiness, joy and fulfilment; why having an awareness of what makes us feel fulfilled and gives our lives meaning is important, and some practical meditations we can do if we’re feeling stuck.

What are you doing when you feel the most alive, uplifted, inspired? Who are you surrounded by? What brings you joy?

Chapters

00.00: channelling the big lebowski

01.02: the importance of finding joy 

01.15: the difference between happiness, joy and fulfilment

02.53: running as a prime example of the fulfilment that comes from delayed gratification

03.55: why emotions shouldn’t be the primary metric of your decision-making

04.33: THINGS I LUV – having an embodied experience of the world

05.55: THINGS I LUV – THE GIFT OF MUSIC!!!! 

07.00: how streaming services like Spotify have made us lose touch with experiencing entire works of art (albums) as music artists intended

08.16: THINGS I LUV – mood lighting, candles and being cozy af

08.55: i am a romantic mf and you best believe i simp for myself

09.30: THINGS I LUV – essential oils are so slept on

10.31: THINGS I LUV – touch

11.55: THINGS I LUV – creating things with my hands, like writing, cooking, baking or playing guitar

13.33: THINGS I LUV – volunteering and paying it forward

14.14: advice for when you’re feeling stuck – volunteer

15.00: practical exercises for when you’re in a rut or don’t know what brings you joy

17.20: you are responsible for your own wellbeing. don’t live your life on other people’s terms

20.00: meditations + make sure to HAVE FUN THAT’S WHAT LIFE’S ABOUT 

Cover art: “Dancing Maidens” by Leopold Franz Kowalsky (n.d.)

Recommended reading: ‘Man’s search for meaning’ by Viktor Frankl & “The gifts of imperfection” by Dr Brene Brown

Futurist Frequency is a tech & wellbeing podcast that helps you disconnect from technology to reconnect with yourself. With several years experience working within the technology industry, Natalie breaks down key tech trends that are shaping our societies, culture, and collective wellbeing, so that we can use technology more mindfully.

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