Natalie draws on her experience as a former marketer to explain the psychological & philosophical mechanisms that drive desire – and influence all decisions that we make, from how we express ourselves, to certain lifestyle choices, and even our life path.
Chapters
00.00: big chungus
00.30: monthly love letters
01.11: are your desires your own? or something borrowed?
01.37: my litmus test for gauging whether i’m overstimulated and need to touch grass
02.00: social media makes everyone looks like CLONES
02.15: what sambas and run clubs have in common
02.50: rene girard, mimetic desire & desire as a social process
03.49: the false assumption that we want things independently of others
04.39: how any society coping with abundance, and not struggling with scarcity, will suffer from mimesis
06.20: “clean girl aesthetic”
07.00: gatherer instinct, but for beauty products
07.40: WE EXIST WITHIN A CULTURAL CONTEXT!!!!!
08.49: i am not immune to mimetic desire and neither are you
09.48: how to distinguish between desires you’ve borrowed & desires that will truly fulfil you
10.57: the importance of developing your own values & philosophy that guide your decision-making
12.10: social media & how it makes us obsessively aware of what other people have & want & how this is eroding people’s sense of self
12.35: taking ownership of your desires & 5 chimp theory
Cover art: “Envy. Reading in the park” by Ignacio Diaz Olano
Recommended reading: “Wanting: the power of mimetic desire in everyday life” by Luke Burgis
Futurist Frequency is a tech & wellbeing podcast that helps you disconnect from technology to reconnect with yourself. With several years experience working within the technology industry, Natalie breaks down key tech trends that are shaping our societies, culture, and collective wellbeing, so that we can use technology more mindfully.
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